Whether you’re a Christian who is just in a relationship or whether you are married to the person you love, things can be difficult. If you’re in a relationship you don’t have to keep things together through the thick and thin: if things get too difficult and you can’t find a way to fix things, you can move on and try to find another like-minded Christian to settle down with. If you’re married, there is a whole different set of problems you must face. This Christian relationship advice can adhere to you, no matter your situation.
Pray together: Many Christian couples, married or not, skip this unless they are at church — they simply don’t realize the power of praying together. Reaching out and asking the Lord for guidance can bring about new solutions to your relationship problems and save you from a possible catastrophe. Pray for guidance, pray for strength, pray for continued love. Open your heart to the Lord and he will open his arms to you and take you under his wing in times of difficulty. Besides being enlightening, when you pray together you strengthen your bonds with not only the Lord, but with each other.
Share your thoughts and feelings openly: The key to a happy relationship is being completely open with your significant other, whether you’re married or not there yet. Keeping your line of communication open can stave off difficulties between the two of you in the future and can be a great weight off your shoulders. Be open with your partner and they will be open with you.
Resist temptation: For a couple who is no yet married but feel they are deeply in love, resisting the urge to commit one of the biggest sins imaginable (premarital sex) can be one of the most difficult things in the world. If you are tempted, pray to the Lord for guidance and keep your head on your shoulders. Maybe distance yourself for a couple of days to regain your composure and build up your faith and resistance. The wait is worth it, it’s just a matter of time.
If you’re married and having a difficult time resisting the temptations of extramarital affairs, you need to distance yourself as far as possible from the person tempting you. Consult the Lord and find an exact answer to your problem. Non-Christians are not the only ones tempted by those outside of the marriage, but you have an extra line of defense to protect you from ruining everything: Your belief in Jesus Christ. Christian relationship advice on this topic is vague, because no one likes to speak about it or admit that temptation does happen. Be strong and believe in yourself and our Load and Savor.
If you have gotten married, it is your duty to do everything in your power to avoid a divorce. Divorce is looked on harshly by the church and should only be undertaken if your spouse has done something so grave there is no fixing the damage done. Take this bit of Christian relationship advice with you that will make everything in life, not only relationships, easier: Follow the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be pure and saved.
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